"I have been so blessed that my son is the coolest kid ever. Of course, that first year of not sleeping and just being dedicated to him had tough parts but that's fine. It's been a blast for me. A lot of people have doubts, but when you have a child I think it takes a really non-emotional person not to have a blast, no matter what age. I've heard stories of people who were 14 that had kids and basically snapped into it and got into the groove of motherhood. I think that emotional attachment, there's nothing out of it that you could regret". [SOURCE]I think it's quite distasteful to try and seek attention and publicity from somebody else's problems. Some folks shouldn't even comment on a situation if they don't know how to give the correct advice. Having a baby in your teens may be a blast to HER (simply because she was seen at the clubs every so often and not spending enough time with her baby) but having a baby isn't a blast. Even the average adult who had a child without preparing themselves wouldn't consider it a blast either. She is sending out the wrong messages - that having a baby at 14 is okay because "it's a blast". How does that sound?
Raising a baby at that age takes a lot of hard work, energy and dedication. Solange AND Jamie Lynn both had head-starts above the average pregnant 16 year old (not everyone has a beautiful rich and famous superstar sister such as Beyonce and Britney Spears, who happen to be the older sibling to look out for them). Financially they were fine and didn't need to worry as money simply wasn't an issue. Even BEFORE Solange got knocked up, I read that she had her own apartment which was fully paid for. Not every 14, 15 and 16 year old had that privilege. Solange may want to think about this before giving out miscalculated advice. The last thing we need right now is more teenage statistics.
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